It pretty much goes without saying, but the guy who only wants a fling will only talk about himself. You may think you are, but your emotional funk will be telegraphed to those around you in subtle ways. Sometimes however i get a little lonely and would find it refreshing to be able have a little intimacy with protection with someone on a regular basis without it leading to total committment. A lot of guys feel like they should pay on the first date when they really like the girl and so it's just a traditional, conventional thing that they follow. It's honestly very sweet and can be a good indicator that someone wants to see you again. At first, you might think that this is a good sign because he wants to spend more time with you He's not going to act like a gentleman, so he's definitely not going to pay for your drinks or food if you got any.
It sounds like this guy is interested in just making out with as many girls as he can, always moving on to the next, and not getting attached to anyone.
It's possible that you are actually funny, of course, and then he'll definitely laugh at the jokes that you make on your date. But dont broadcast it to me. He's going to tell you a lot about himself and his family background. Thank you so much for sharing this! She should be confident without being tough.