But seriously, don't hang out with people who judge you for your life choices. She understands how much it means to me. I dated someone who smoked weed every day and got drunk on occasion for over a year and a half and never had a problem with it. I don't think I can be with someone who smokes cigarettes, likes drinking this much, and gets so bad when he gets drunk. If so, then we won't get along just because I don't see any reason to be judgy about what other people like to do with their own free time providing it doesn't harm anyone else.
I don't have a moral opposition to it, it's just not for me.
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That was the drill in high school. My views on sex wouldn't be compatible with people who only have sex in serious relationships. I i've never ever had the thought to look down on someone for their lifestyle. I assumed they were all of the sort of "judge other people who drink and do drugs and have sex" variety, but I just read through the whole wiki article on it lol and apparently this is more complex than I thought. Sure, I'd be a bit hesitant since I enjoy wine and drinking with friends every now and then so I'd wonder how compatible we would be in the long run, but if I liked him I'd be willing to give it a try. But I can say I personally would have trouble dating OP because that kind of zealotry scares me, even if it was a good thing in OPs life. If you just practice a sober lifestyle just keep it private.